Easter Traditions: Resurrection Eggs and Easter Sunday

LauraAll Posts, Holidays1 Comment

We’re getting ready to begin our annual journey through the Easter Story with our Resurrection Eggs. Each plastic egg contains a small symbol from the gospel story – a donkey, silver coins, praying hands. For the 12 days before Easter, we open one egg each day, gradually telling the story. I read a little picture book called “Benjamin’s Box: The Story of the Resurrection Eggs,” which follows a boy through the crucifixion and resurrection as he, himself, gathers each item that we have in the eggs. In order to open the 12th egg on Easter Sunday, we’ll begin the story on Wednesday, April 5th.

Before the 12 days even begin, the oldest kids figure out a pattern of “who opens which egg, when”. They know – oh, they know – if this doesn’t happen, chaos ensues morning after morning, with “IT’S MY TURN!” and so on. We all agree that it seems silly to fight over Resurrection Eggs (of all things), but still it’s good to be peacefully proactive. 😉

Some years, I have my act together enough to lead the children in creating A Grace Garden for Easter. I first read about these on Ann Voskamp’s blog many years ago and I just love how the dirt, the garden, and the empty tomb are visual reminders of what really happened.

On Easter morning, we give each child an Easter basket with some jelly beans, a book that will encourage them in their faith, a chocolate cross, and a little animal.

(The little animal thing is funny, and I’m not sure how it started, but I love how each animal reminds them about God’s wonderful hand in creation. By now, we have quite a collection: a moose, an elephant, 2 cows, a red fox, a beaver, several little lambs, and many other creatures that are often used to teach the newest baby, or are organized into habitats, or arranged at a zoo, or invited to live in a talking barnyard. I like to invest in the Safari LTD brand, especially the bigger animals, sold individually at places like Michael’s.)

We dress up, head out to church, and usually help with the music there. Between church and nap time, we try to snap a photo or two. Then, we enjoy a feast at one of our parents’ homes with an Easter egg hunt for the kids.

What are your favorite Easter traditions?

Host A Christian Passover Celebration with Children

LauraHolidays, Motherhood2 Comments

Passover is my favorite holiday.

It’s the traditional Jewish meal that Jesus was celebrating with his disciples the night he was betrayed. Now we call it “The Last Supper”; it was during this Passover meal Jesus instituted our beloved Communion Meal. Passover was the “this” in His, “Do this in remembrance of me.

Spring’s first flowers decorate the farmhouse table.

Warm, spring air wafts through the windows, bringing hope.

Families and friends gather to celebrate how God has freed us from our slavery to sin.

As the Israelites celebrate their deliverance from slavery in Egypt, we celebrate our deliverance from sin and death. To escape the Angel of Death, the Israelites covered their doorposts with the blood of a lamb. We celebrate that, by grace, our lives are covered by our Lamb, Jesus’, blood. Death has passed over us and has no sting.

A peek inside our celebration…

The ceremony is abuzz with children and adults alike, remembering that ancient story of the Israelite’s deliverance, while seeing Christ in every symbol, every taste, every smell. Some parts of the ceremony are active, some are reflective. Some require participation, some require a listening ear.

I prepare a big meal – often lamb kababs and rice – that we enjoy together, right in the midst of the ceremony. We let our guards down, take bathroom breaks, refill water glasses, and help the children cut their meat. Amidst the hubbub and interruptions, we share about the ways God has delivered each one of us. Even the children pipe up and tell about His goodness in their lives. I cherish it, year after year.

The ceremony is beautiful. It builds my faith, year after year. God is such a good teacher to have instituted a sensory meal – full of history, full of heart, full of truth – to remind us, over and over again about His love for us through Jesus.

After the two white Passover candles are extinguished, our guests linger, expressing gratitude and wonder. One by one, they head out the door.

By the end of the evening, the floor is covered in Matzah crumbs, the table is sprinkled with sparkling grape juice droplets. Half-nibbled parsley rests on the edge of saltwater bowls and crumpled napkins hide the bitter herbs that the children didn’t prefer to swallow.

We methodically clean up the dishes, filling the dishwasher to the brim and shoving it closed for the evening.

As it begins its 2 hour chore, Ryan and I hug one another right there in the kitchen. We sigh and breathe gratefully about the work and wonder of the Passover Meal.

You could celebrate Passover, too…

May I take you step by step through the preparation and ceremony?  I’d love to help make your celebration as simple and meaningful as possible, so I wrote a Christian Passover Seder with Children that you can download and print for free.

Submit your name and email below to receive this gift!

This collection is straight-forward and organized, including an “Items Needed” list, a “Before Your Guests Arrive” check-list, and 2 recipes.

Print it out and read through it so you can wrap your mind around the ceremony ahead of time. You’ll want to keep the script close-by as you’ll be leading the entire ceremony. (Take heart! We’ve been celebrating the Passover for over 11 years and we still have to follow the script pretty closely.)

I wrote this with children in mind. I kept the ceremony as brief and clear as possible, as we aim to tell one generation after another the mighty acts of God.

I hope it builds your faith.

Joyous Passover, my friend!

(photo credit)

Do You Want to Train Your Kids in Kindness?

LauraAll Posts, Character Training, Motherhood2 Comments

My friend Steph just emailed this question, “I’m currently reading Corrie ten Boom’s “Tramp for the Lord”. Have you read this? It’s so good. Anyways, in there she’s talking about her first bath and meal after being freed from the Nazi prison and she says that the girls who bathed her were “trained in kindness”. I thought about my girls and how I would love for this to be them – to be trained in kindness. Any practical insight in how to do that?

I sat down to reply and these little scenes gathered in my mind:

One time, I saw a 4-year-old boy put his arm around his 4-year-old soccer teammate, to comfort him after a big disappointment.

Another time, an energetic 7-year old boy stood behind a group of hungry kids and said, “I can go last.”

This past Sunday, a 9-year old girl accidentally hurt my daughter. She stooped down beside her, touched her back and asked, “Are you alright? I am so sorry!”

And, of course, there was that time I brought our children to a Field Day. My 18-month old baby boy was reaching into a little plastic swimming pool, feeling the water. A gang of 7-year-old boys started goading my impressionable baby with, “Put your head in the water! Put your head in the water!” A brave 8-year-old stood up and said to them, “Put your own heads in the water.”

(Don’t you just love that?)

Kindness touches our hearts, reminding us of what we truly, deeply desire.

Life is busy and distracting; we forget that we need kindness like we need air.

But when we see kindness, we remember its importance and we breathe it in.

When we see unkindness, we gasp and miss it.

We want kindness in our homes and in our kids. We want it for our happiness – and theirs. We want it for God’s glory. But it does not come naturally.

Is it possible to teach our children how to be kind?

Oh, yes! It’s not only possible, it’s necessary. Kindness must be the heart-and-soul of our ministry as mothers. For it is the heart-and-soul of Christ’s ministry. It’s part of love. It’s what the Holy Spirit creates day after day, the fruit of kindness.

Let’s walk backward, down the route toward training our children in kindness. Take a look and tell me what you would add:

3. We teach our children to be kind by inviting them to be kind with us.

When someone has stubbed a toe, say “Let’s go get him an ice pack!” When someone is lonely, say “Let’s go visit her together! We’ll cheer her up!” When someone needs something, say “Let’s give him what he needs.”

Your child will lean on your hand, your company, and your enthusiasm for kindness. Don’t expect the initiative to come from your little one; she’s just starting out in life. You’ll come up with the ideas and invite her along for the joy.

Of course, we can’t invite our children to be kind with us, unless we are kind to them.

2. We teach our children to be kind by being kind to them.

I learned to brush my daughters’ hair, rub lotion on my son’s dry hands, spoon-feed my baby because my mother did all of those things for me. I learned to plan special celebrations, write heartfelt notes, give a hug, sing a song, and save the day because my mother did all of those things for me.

Knowing how delightful kindness feels, my heart’s desire and greatest pleasure has become extending kindness to others. My mother spoke the language of kindness until I learned to speak it, too.

Let’s make this question the air we breathe out, “How can I help, darling?”

Of course, we can’t be kind to our children unless we have received the kindness of Christ.

1. We teach our children to be kind by receiving kindness from Christ.

Our own efforts to be kind wear thin, but Jesus sustains kindness forever. Once we have received His kindness toward us – His life laid down on our behalf – all of our selfish questions are answered and our longings are satisfied. This is profoundly life-changing, settling our hearts in such a way as to make human kindness possible. To make matters better, Jesus Himself will work in us to produce kindness in this dark world.

Savor the kindness of Christ every day, every moment.

In Christ, we will extend kindness to our children day by day. We’ll extend kindness to the outside world, inviting our children to join us.

Don’t you worry… One day, your little girls will do the same, well-trained and well-loved by kindness, just like you.

The Winner of the GIVEAWAY!

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I’m happy to announce that Courtney Whetzel won the beautiful hand-stamped gifts from A Gilded Line! Congratulations, Courtney!

Thank you to each person who entered the contest. I haven’t hosted a giveaway in ages. In fact, in the history of my 10 year-old blog, I hosted one giveaway. ONE! I gave away a jar of my favorite berry jam. (Isn’t that charming?)

SO, this special giveaway from A Gilded Line – with beautiful handmade artwork featuring such encouraging words – was a big deal for me. I appreciate each and everyone of you who joined in the fun.

I hope you were encouraged just by reading the quotations, like “Courage, dear heart”. I hope that you, too, hear God whispering that to you as you face today’s tasks.

I also want to thank Allison from A Gilded Line for generously creating and giving the gifts! Visit her often as you plan “just the right gift” for the people you love!

Whatever I do here at LauraBooz.com – from writing posts about motherhood to sharing meal planners and hosting giveaways – I desire to build you up and point you toward Jesus. You can look forward to that!

I’m so glad that you’re a part of the community here at LauraBooz.com. Visit often and keep me updated in the comments or on my Facebook page. 🙂

Grateful,

Laura

“Courage, Dear Heart” Gift Bundle GIVEAWAY, featuring A Gilded Line

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This year, our 11-year old wore the cover off our copy of The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe .  The book landed everywhere – on the kitchen counter, by the bathroom sink, in the car, on the couch – with a dozen scraps of paper sticking out, marking pages. Over a span of a few weeks, she transformed the novel into a stage play. She spent hours bent over her little notebook, writing page after page of dialogue and scene descriptions.

She held auditions and selected her cast, her sister as Lucy and her brother as Maugrim (with a growl so good it would make you want to flee your beaver dam). Of course, talented cousins fill in the other roles.

As you can imagine, Narnia has been everywhere and all the time for us. We’ve been listening to the audio books, watching the movies, reading through scenes and listening to the movie soundtrack on our drives into town.

When Valentine’s Day rolled around, we wanted to give our sweet tween a token of our love.

We selected a hand-stamped metal cuff from A Gilded Line. (I loved that we could choose the type of metal and the style of the font, personalizing the bracelet, making it just right for our girl.)

 

It is inscribed with, “Courage, Dear Heart”… that was Aslan’s whisper to Lucy when she needed it most.

“…but no one except Lucy knew that as it circled the mast it had whispered to her, “Courage, dear heart,” and the voice, she felt sure, was Aslan’s, and with the voice a delicious smell breathed in her face.”
C.S. Lewis, The Voyage of the Dawn Treader

We hope that our girl will hear God’s whisper saying the same thing, cheering her on through her life, strengthening her when she is weak, showing her how to live.

It is perfect for a girl-sized wrist, but able to grow with her over time. It’s beautifully made and comfortable to wear, a true treasure.

GIVEAWAY!

Allison, the creator of A Gilded Line has created a C.S. Lewis Gift Bundle for us.

The bundle includes 3 of her C.S. Lewis creations:

  • A metal cuff that is hand-stamped with “Courage, Dear Heart”
  • A metal cuff that is hand-stamped with “Be just and merciful and brave”
  • A hand-stamped bookmark with the inscription, “There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind. – C.S. Lewis”. (Don’t you just love that?!)

To enter this giveaway, fill out the form below! Open to the U.S. only. This giveaway ends on March 22nd, 2017, at 11:59pm EDT.

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You’ll just love Allison at A Gilded Line. Her family business motto is: “Wear Truth. Share Truth.” 

She writes, “There is something empowering about wearing life-building words on your wrist, a constant reminder and point of focus to center your mind on. They also provide opportunities to talk to others, breaking the ice of a superficial conversation when you share your purpose behind choosing the words you wear on your cuff! A Gilded Line is still a family-run business, and we hope to be able to stamp and spread truth as long as possible!”

Oh, and an outtake photo just for you:

Weak Wrists, Sick Babies, Poor Eyesight: The Mentors God Chooses

LauraAll Posts, Bible Study, Discipleship0 Comments

There’s an older woman at our church who would like to meet with our 11-year-old sweet-pea. The two of these unlikely friends have been talking “knitting”. Viv wants to learn how to knit the sweaters that Lynn sends to children in third world countries. They’ve planned needle sizes and yarn type, but they haven’t gotten together yet.

This morning at church, Lynn grabbed my arm and said, “I want you to know that I keep thinking about Viv, but I’ve been sick for 3 weeks. My stomach has been terribly upset. I think it’s related to my vision. I was supposed to have Laser surgery last week to fix my blurry vision, but the appointment was postponed because of the snow. My appointment is rescheduled for the middle of April. I can’t knit until after that. But, I am really looking forward to getting together with her then.”

I said, “I understand completely. You are so dear!”

She is watching the calendar – counting down the days – until she can sit with a girl some-60 years younger than herself, and teach her how to knit sweaters to clothe the naked, in Jesus’ name.

To me, this is one of life’s most beautiful moments.

Lynn’s struggle to obey Christ in a weak, frail body reminds me of the many times I’ve had to reschedule discipleship meetings because my children were throwing up, or I hadn’t slept for 7 weeks, or I had forgotten about a doctor’s appointment.

It reminds me of the many times I’ve read half of the chapter that we were going to discuss, or prayed for my friend once in a week’s time, or failed to follow-up with a phone call… all because I was trying to get an infant to breastfeed, or potty-train a toddler, or listen to an 8 year-old’s story.

In the past, I’ve felt guilty, frustrated, and discouraged by these circumstances. This just mustn’t be the right season for me to disciple anyone, I’ve thought sadly. But now, I can see that these challenging circumstances simply are the nature of discipleship.

God calls us to disciple one another within the context of very limited bodies and relentless interruptions.

Consider Jesus who gathered his 12 disciples around him day after day. They had plenty of distractions and interruptions come their way. (In fact, when I read the gospels, I feel like they just moved from one interruption to another.)

Jesus doesn’t avoid or ignore the complex inconveniences of life, but instead uses those very circumstances to teach about love, compassion, and total reliance on God.

We can do the same, learning from – leaning on – Christ.

Our limitations, cancellations, and confessions will be the very things that point to Jesus the most. You and I are called to make disciples of Jesus Christ. Let’s not give up.

“Therefore, brothers, since we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus, 20 by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain, that is, through his flesh, 21 and since we have a great priest over the house of God, 22 let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. 23 Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. 24 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, 25 not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.” – from Hebrews 10

(Would you like to develop a mentoring relationship with another woman, but need something to fuel the friendship? Consider asking a few of these questions to get things going!)

Don’t Eat Raw Granola Bars! (I forgot an important detail…)

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Yikes! My sister just pointed out that the Girlfriends’ Granola Bar recipe in The Reluctant Meal Planner’s Meal Plan didn’t include the baking temp. and time! I’ll modify that in the PDF asap, but in the meantime, please add this to your download: “Bake at 350ºF for 20-25 minutes, or until the bars begin to turn golden at the edges.”

I’m so sorry if you’ve been chowing down on raw granola bars. I promise, they are much tastier when baked.

Oh, dear. I can learn from that.

3 Ways to Make it Through Winter’s Last Hoorah.

LauraAll Posts, Motherhood

I stopped by the library to pick up a stack of books that our local librarian was holding for me at the circulation desk. Our 11-year old had also asked me to snag The Princess Academy, so I headed into the quaint children’s section first.

I was so happy to see a friend of mine there. Her three beautiful children – all under 4 years old – were playing at the train table. They seemed so content.

But, that mama, well she looked at me with wide eyes and said, “I don’t think I’m going to make it. How do you get through the winter with little children?”

She went on to explain that they have a tiny living room and that she is at her whit’s end with the crankiness. She said that every other minute, one of them cries. And her daughter – oh, her 2 year old daughter – she’s just mean sometimes, she said. “I feel so unChristian that I have these difficult children! What should I do?”

 I assured her that it is much harder to have 3 children-under-4, than 5 children-under-11. (Big kids are hope-bringers and help-bringers. I love them.)

I wished she could see into our home just once as we struggle with the same things. We’re a little stir-crazy, too. We whine and argue and yell at each other. At least she could see that we’re in this together.

There is no doubt about it, winter is long and wearying on the mother of young children.

But we can make it to the other side.

3 simple things to make it through winter:

  1. Play background music. 

Beautiful background music is like a magic show around here. It transforms a cranky atmosphere into a peaceful one, instantly. I’ve noticed that my children play happily when music is wafting around. Try it: sit your children at the kitchen table with play-doh and turn on the Elizabeth Mitchell Pandora station.  You will be amazed at the peace that fills your home.

Of course, there is always a good reason to play some spunky dance music, too. Select something more upbeat when you want to lighten the mood and get your blood pumping.

2. G0 outside.

It is so hard to go outside with little ones, but it couldn’t be more important. The hard work you put into it will pay off in happier, healthier kids. I’m sure of it.

(Just a tip: Don’t ask them if they want to go outside. They will say, “no.”  Just say, “Let’s go play soccer! Do you want to put your shoes on or should I?” Be happy. Bundle up. It will be worth it if you stay out there for 5 whole minutes. Fill a bird feeder. Get the mail. Look for animal tracks or pinecones. Play tag.)

When my children were younger, I made a Winter Challenge Chart on a piece of yellow construction paper. The Challenge was… “Go outside for 3 minutes.” Yes, this was the equivalent of an xtream winter sport. We kept the chart by the door and we did that thing. Of course, it took 20 minutes to get everyone’s boots, coats, and mittens on. I considered that a worthwhile 30 minute activity.

By the way, guess who will be boosted the most with a little sunshine? You.

3. Listen to encouragement about motherhood as often as possible.

I listen to Sally Clarkson’s “At Home With Sally” podcast almost every day. (New to podcasts? Download the app “Podcast Republic” and search for “At Home With Sally.” Click “Subscribe” and download any podcasts that look interesting to you.)

I need to hear that my work is noble, that it matters, that I am running a marathon, doing Kingdom work, and raising adults who will do great things for God. I need real, audible voice from the “great cloud of witnesses” cheering me on from day to day.

Get yourself some cheerleaders, especially now when you feel like quitting.

I’ll be the first. “You can do this. You can love those little ones today. You are the perfect person to help them through their winter struggles and give them a vision of transformation. God is gently holding you as you gently hold them. Keep on! You are going to make it.

(Do you know a mother of young children who could benefit from this post? Send it along! And maybe offer to help her through one more winter’s day.)

Mom, Your Degree and Career Are Worth Every $.

LauraAll Posts, College, Homeschooling, Motherhood

Before I had children, I’d write the monthly check to pay my college loans and I’d wonder if I’d ever get my money’s worth out of my college education.

Then, as I was transitioning from my career as a teacher to a homeschooling mother, I worried that the skills I developed in my career would atrophy and my hard work would fade into meaninglessness.

It took me several years to adjust from a lifestyle of measurable, consistent achievement to a more amorphous existence. It took me just as long to bid farewell to my love of a paycheck, pats on the back, and public appreciation. But, those appetites faded over time as other ones grew. I came to love the ongoing pleasure of seeing my dearest humans grow centimeter by centimeter, discovery by discovery. I began to love the freedom of creating the rhythms of our days, of feeling satisfied with relationships instead of output.

I like how I’ve become more human, really.

And yet those questions about getting my money’s worth and keeping my skill-set still lingered in my mind.

Until things like this started happening…

When our firstborn was 2 years old, she said she wanted to be a nurse. Not “become a nurse someday“, but to be one, now. Pronto. She wanted to introduced herself with, “I’m a 2-year old nurse.” And she was. She’d notice the slightest cut on anyone’s hand and ask about it. She mastered the application of Dora Bandaids by the time she was 3 1/2 years old.

I could tell that God had given us a child who would love the sciences. This helped me to see two useful things: that our daughter would love – and need – scientific instruction asap. What a thrill to access all of the things I learned earning my B.S. in Biology. When she was 4, I taught her how to set up an experiment with a control and a variable. We looked at things from the inside-out, and when she had complex questions about cells, energy, or heart chambers, I knew where to begin.

Now that she’s 11 years old with countless other interests, and followed by siblings who are miniature mathematicians, readers, musicians, writers, administrators, athletes, you name it, I can confidently report that every dollar and all of the hard work I invested in my college degrees (a B.S. in Biology and a B.A. in English Literature, as well as a M.A. in English Literature) has been worth it.

My higher education shaped me and my creative work as a mother. It provides the wealth of ideas, skills, and know-how that I give to my children every day. Because of what I learned in college, grad school, and my career, I introduce my children to literary themes from their earliest memory of conversation. I teach them how to speak from the heart, choose good books, read carefully, listen for details, and write persuasively and gracefully. I teach them how to work hard and ask good questions.

I never could have guessed that my education and career would be so valuable.

I certainly wouldn’t have guessed it would find its greatest value in my children, through motherhood.

Though I haven’t earned the dollars back literally, I confidently consider them well invested.

It is a great joy in my life.

Now I can see that we don’t go to college and build careers for money or promotion alone. If that’s the extent of our motivation, it will trap us. We go to college and build careers for insight and skills that we may use to love and serve people, as God allows.

Do you ever struggle to justify the financial and time investment of higher education and career with motherhood?

This may help: Today, take some time to jot down 10 ways in which your education and career have enriched you with content, perspectives, and skills that you could pass along to your child. What are your child’s dreams and ambitions? Look for ways that your unique education and skill set complements your child. As you begin to enrich the miniature scientists and artists around your kitchen table, you’ll get such a kick out of the way God has lavishly prepared you for motherhood.

It’ll be worth every dollar.

Reviving a Lifeless Bible Study

LauraAll Posts, Bible Study

Just one year ago I was joyfully teaching two women’s Bible studies—one in the morning, one in the evening. I was daily studying Scripture, loving every word. The Holy Spirit carried me from precept to precept, and I loved sharing what I was learning: the connections between the Old Testament and the New, the meanings of complicated words, the excellencies of theological truths, and the hopeful application to everyday life.

Until now.

Now, Bible study feels impossible . . .

…Read the rest at Revive Our Hearts True Woman blog today!